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Lesson 7
Sex and Choices
Objectives
1.
Students will grow in their ability to make healthy decisions regarding sex.
2.
Students will analyze how sex and intimacy progress.
3.
Students will identify healthy alternatives to sexual contact.
4.
Students will distinguish ways to save sexual activity and reasons why they should.
Overview of Lesson
A.
Introduction
B.
Understanding Intimacy
1.
The Steps to
Intimacy
2.
Sex and Intimacy Are Progressive
worksheet
C.
Today’s Limits, Tomorrow’s Rewards
1.
Personal Maturity Measures
2.
Show Me Your Love
handout
D.
Wrap Up
Materials
Sex Bonds Circle (pgs. 7-J, 7-K)
Steps To Intimacy thirteen (13) 8.5 x 11 cards
(pgs. 7-Q to 7-AC)
STOP sign (pg. 7-AD)
Copies of the following:
Sex and Intimacy Are Progressive
worksheet (pg. 7-M)
Personal Maturity Measures
handout (pg. 7-O)
Show Me Your Love
handout (pg. 7-P)
Advance Preparation
Write the following on the board:
Stage 1 - Initial Attraction
Stage 2 - Building the Foundation for a Relationship
Stage 3 - Crossing the Intimacy Boundary
Stage 4 - Crossing the Sex Boundary
Copy and assemble Sex Bonds Circle (pgs. 7-J, 7-K)
Cut out the white segments (pg. 7-L)
Prepare the Steps To Intimacy and the STOP sign (pgs. 7-Q to 7-AD) by either copying on to
card stock, laminating or using plastic sheet protectors.
Copy the worksheet and handouts for each student.